God bless you,
A while ago I wrote a serie on the subject Love-Marriage. Today I just want to encourage you with the following; When you say “I love you” mean it and when you say “I do” live it.
Love can be a feeling but when you take the decision to love someone you will go for it. Don’t be a quitter. The devil is waiting for you to make the move to say I don’t love anymore, I don’t wanna try anymore, I’m tired of this situation and so one. And when he catches you in that mood he will make a move, but be smart and know that the devil is a liar. Love is pure and comes from God. Love will persevere it hopes. So when trials and tribulation come don’t be quick to quit because you’ll be a quitter but be a conquerer and live in victory. Fight for your marriage, don’t let life lessons throw you down, stand firm, everything you go through is to make you stronger to shape you into the man and woman God created you to be. The fight is not against flesh and blood but against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
Love doesn’t work like we think. Ooh I love you babe; “do you want to marry me” and you get married and than you will enter an other stage of live your mindset is set to think for “us” instead of “I” and than suddenly you don’t want it anymore you have seen it all. This is not what the bible says about love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV
Love does not keep track record of everything that went wrong. You know why because when you do so you are quick to quit but when you look at the victories it brings forth hope, joy and love grows. At this point you’ll get motivated about the love you are giving and receiving and will be encouragement to keep on persevering and to keep on fighting.
PS: I love my husband and wouldn’t change him for anything nor anyone. I have told you the bad but now I’m telling you this. I love him and He loves me, so we love each other. We tell it to one and other and we live it. When trials comes we don’t talk I wanna a divorce, we talk with the mindset of analysing the situation, searching for a solution and making sure we are growing through the situation it has been more than 12 years but the love is the same pure. It only encourage me to give more, love more. Im still mesmerised by him. Last Sunday I was preppin’ the sound and I saw Him in the hallway and he looked fine. I give Him a compliment of his look and everybody laugh but this is how you encourage your spouses, motivate them and making sure that the love keeps burning.
With loving regards,